Hi, I (29f) have been with my boyfriend (29M) for over 6 years. A couple of months ago, we got into this huge argument. The premise of this argument was that I had a formal that I wanted to attend for school. He didn't seem interested in going, so I asked my friend to go instead. He got wind that I asked my friend to go and told me to uninvite her because he wants to go. I told him I couldn't because she already paid me, and he knew I was taking her because he heard the whole conversation about me asking her. He could have stopped me, but he didn't. The weeks leading up to the formal, he kept telling me that he was going to text my friend and cancel on her so that he could go. I explicitly said no, and if he does that, I would be really mad at him. One day, I went to work and got a message from my friend saying it was fine and to just Zelle her the money. I was really confused. As it turns out, he went through my phone and got her number. He waited until I was at work to tell her she can't go anymore because he wanted to take me instead. I felt like my trust was betrayed because he still did what I told him not to do and went through my phone. I have nothing to hide on my phone; that's why he has my password. When I got home, we got into a big argument because he went against what I said, even though he never wanted to go in the first place. I decided to change my password on all devices. The day of the formal, HE DIDN'T EVEN REMEMBER!!!! That shows that it never mattered to him either way! He only realized when he saw me getting ready. During the formal, he was texting on his phone with his AirPods in his ear. He didn't really care about it. Ever since then, everything has changed. We no longer talk the way we used to; we get into arguments almost every day over different things. He spends most of his time on his phone. When I enter the bedroom, he leaves automatically for the living room. He is no longer loving( no kisses, no hugs, nothing). He's been a complete asshole. He got a new privacy screen for his phone (one of those really dark ones you can't see unless you're looking directly at it). Every time that he is on his phone, he hides it from me. He now locks doors, saying he needs his "personal space." He eats less, drinks more, and goes out with friends. I don't know what to do anymore. Is our relationship coming to an end? He's acting like I am the one who did something wrong. We do share animals
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