I (32f) met my ex when I was 16, we were totally in the honeymoon phase in the beginning, all over eachother all day. I know, that beeing a teenager in love might not really be a fair comparison to adult love. But thats the only time I have actually been in love.
We were together 12 years, broke up, and ever since, I have not experienced falling in love, although I have been on many dates and also dated some more intensity for a longer period.
I know many people who fall in love quite quickly, and it just dosent happen for me. Right now, I have dated this guy for four months and its nice and easy, i care about him, but I am not in love. Am I just naive to expect some butterflies?
So, how fast do you fall in love, and how have it felt for you as an adult?