Gonna keep it as short as possible. My gf got upset with me because I went to my companies work event (work at bmw we threw a car meet). It was loads of fun and she couldn’t make it because of work. She has a thing about coming up with narratives about my female coworkers. I sent her a video of me riding in the technicians m340i and my coworker was in the backseat. She was t even there when I got in but she hopped in for a ride & in the video she saw her, she’s 22 btw.. The last bout she had was because of another coworker who she felt flirted and had a thing for me. Funny thing is we went on a work retreat which I invited my gf to stay with me at the hotel for a night & it was ruined because she couldn’t get over the fact I was in the same hotel/training and afterwards I went to go have after training cocktails/smoke with the whole class, no one on one took olace at any point just trying to enjoy time with coworkers on a company trip. This coworker moves shortly after that trip (crisis averted so I thought) but now she’s latched on to this new coworker and I’m just getting sick of being told I’m being in considerate or disrespectful because I’m choosing to hang out with people that I not only see almost everyday but who I work with. I love my gf and I’ve never cheated, lied or betrayed her in the whole year we’ve been dating. I just don’t know if I should keep putting up with this or call it quits. I just see the behavior as lack of trust, controlling or living up to unknown expectations. All this occasions I’ve just been living my life normally, being social, having a good time & making human connection. She said maybe she should start hanging out with her coworkers too and doing the “same thing I do to her” which I don’t know what she means because I’m not being disrespectful ever. I always mention her to my friends and family she’s not a secret. I’ve been faithful , loving, caring and I treat her with respect and her family. I could understand her wanting me to change my behavior if I was out late at the bars or sneaking around but I really just skateboard, work, enjoy life with my homies n such & wanna have fun with her. Any advice would help
Edit\\\* she did say I was being selfish by putting myself in danger speeding in a car with someone. I understand that I do, but also I was just having a little fun on the dealership road and I don’t do dangerous stuff like that often. I know it’s a thin line between fun & danger but it’s like sesh, live a little yk?