Hey y’all, (27F) here! I’m new to this community, but I have to know if there are any folks out there that are feeling the same way I do. I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 3 1/2 years ago and before breaking up, we hadn’t had sex in months mostly due to the fact that he and I weren’t doing well.
Since our break up, I have been single and haven’t had any sexual partners or even “in the talking phase“ men. So if I’m doing my math right, I haven’t had sex in almost four years. But here’s kinda the weird part… it’s not bothering me nearly as much as I thought it would. Before my break up, I had sex all the time and really have had a constant trail since I lost my virginity at 16. I had a couple boyfriends, FWB, hookups and plenty of rebounds. I loved it and was always very confident in finding my next “plaything” if you will. But for some reason that stamina has since disappeared. Don’t get me wrong, I still feel aroused on occasion and have toys that I use to assist, but as far as the urge for human intimacy I used to have, not sure what happened but I’m just not really feeling it anymore. I have no interest at all. My friends think it’s a lapse in confidence but I’m not sure… anyone else feeling like this?