I got married recently, and before marriage I clearly told my husband that I don’t want to change my surname because I don’t want to lose my identity.
He didn’t like it, but now he is pressuring me a lot and saying things like if I don’t take his surname then I’m not really his wife.
Along with that, I’m currently staying with my in-laws and I don’t have a secure place or locker to keep my gold, so my parents asked me to keep it with them temporarily until I have a safer setup.
When I told this to my husband, he reacted very badly—he said I don’t care about his family’s feelings, told me to go stay at my parents’ house if I take my gold there, called me “psycho,” and said he has lost trust and feelings for me.
I feel like I’m being forced and emotionally blamed for both my personal choices and safety concerns