I’m 34F. been on apps/dating for 4 years!!! I had many situations for month or two but the effort on men part was non existent mostly and it all fizzled out. I’m soo tired and had a breakdown two weeks ago when my friend came to introduce her fantastic new partner (so happy for her!!! she met him by luck at pub when she was drunk and he got her home safe). while I’m here doing everything by book . Getting into new hobbies , reading couples therapy books, going therapy, dating with intention …and not one man stuck around … I’m so tired …if I focused on career/education the way I am on dating I would have two Phds right now. Been off sick since the breakdown thinking maybe I will never find anyone . maybe it’s just not in a stars for me. I’m average looking woman looking for decent guy (i don’t need six figures, six feet tall men …just a normal nice guy who shares few hobbies with me). send some advice / personal stories / book on staying single forever recommendations …