hey everyone! i’m on a journey of finding new friends in a new city. i’m neurodivergent and have some difficulties understanding how to make friends (this is my first time making friends outside of a school setting after graduating grad school and college).
i’ve been texting with a few people and hanging out in person over the past year a couple of times. i find that I am initiating text convos and hangouts with people a lot more than they do with me which obviously feels sad and frustrating. is there ever a point where i should pull back and focus my energy on finding other people to be friends with? is everyone like this and i am just stuck perpetually making plans and reaching out to people??