Anyone else have this problem? it really bothers me, there have been times when I really wanted to go out and go clubbing or for a few drinks or just do something for some occasion. I love halloween and on multiple times when I have tried to make plans for halloween it falls through and I can feel as though nobody wants to go through with the plans and then when it comes to it, it falls through. My friend group is small around 5 of us and one of our friends birthday is at the start of May and we always do something and its a big thing for her and we go all out, then when it's my birthday at the end of May they can't be fucking bothered. They only ever want to do anything on their terms and never when I suggest something. I'll never forget 2 years ago it was my birthday and of course wanted to do something for it with them but one of them didn't want to and made some excuse and when one drops out they all do. I have another friend who has her birthday a day after mine so I basically met her on her birthday and celebrated mine too because I had no other option. It's St Patricks day soon and being Irish I of course want to go for a few drinks but they don't want too. We are all based in London too so it's not like there's a lack of options I understand that people are busy but I'm not asking for much as we only see each other every month or two . I think I need more friends…