I (29f) have been seeing this guy (29m) for about 5 months. So far everything had been going pretty good. We see each other 1 to 2 times a week and talk almost everyday.

Today, we went out for dinner to a small restaurant that could seat maybe 20 people. I sat facing the windows looking at the parking lot and he sat facing into the restaurant. Our waitress was this beautiful young girl and she took our order and went back to her station.

As we were waiting for our food, I noticed he kept staring at the waitress. Like full on staring, watching her as she walked by to staring at her while she was in her work station. She actually came up to our table and asked if we needed anything else because he kept staring.

I didn't say anything at the time, but I found his behavior to be very creepy. So far he seemed respectful and disciplined, and I really liked him. But after this dinner I think I have gotten the ick.

This just happened so maybe I need to sleep on it, but right now im wondering if I should even continue seeing him?


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