I keep hearing people say that girls only go for bad boys and ignore guys who are actually nice, but I’m not sure how true that even is. like is it really about being a “bad boy” or is it just confidence or something else. sometimes it feels like people who don’t care as much come off more attractive, but I don’t know if that’s the full story or if we’re just oversimplifying it. curious what people actually think about this because I hear it all the time but never know if it’s real or just something people say