I asked out a girl by giving her friend a note that said "hey! id love to take you out for coffee this week. let me know if you're into it :)" she didnt respond to it. instead. she started bringing more friends that would "look at me" im assuming they all knew about the note and they just wanted to see who it was that asked her.
I just let it be and moved on. However, today, after not seeing her for like 3 months. I heard footsteps while I was studying and just turned my head and saw her and her friend and they quickly turned around and went the other direction. I spoke to a few friends about this and they also said this is kind of weird behaviour on her end. My friends asked if I harassed her or persisted or if I asked her more than once and I said no I didnt.
All I said was I noticed her "friends" would come around me and just look a few times at me then go on about their business. But I just told my friends about what just happened and they told me she probably has a direct issue with me or that even just showing interest in her probably disgusted her.
I dont think it's wrong to ask someone out (whether it's direct or the way I did) but this level of persistent avoidance is kinda overkill. I never even liked her. I just wanted to get to know her because I found her attractive thats it.