I have a few friends and I think I can be a bit annoying and unfunny at times. I struggle to think of stuff to say. They've never told me that I'm either of these things, but I'm not really somebody that gets invited to spend time with people one on one, it's usually just as part of a group. I think I'm kind of okay at playing off other people, but I'm not great at actually starting the conversations or suggesting ideas of what to do.

Anytime I meet somebody new or one of my friends friends, I think I come across as quite awkward and weird. If I meet them again a few days later they don't remember me at all. Even people I've met numerous times and had long conversations with have forgot they've met me before. It's not that I've a generic face either, I always get compared to a really famous actor, I just must not leave a lasting impression.

My question I guess is, how can I fix this. I want people to actually remember me and enjoy speaking with me. I don't even think it's the awkwardness, at least fully, since I know awkward people who seem to be really popular and people get along with them quite well.


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