Soooo my (31F) bf (35M) can usually only cum when he goes fast and hard. Sometimes he doesn’t have to go full force if I’m on top because the visual is enough to help him get off, but otherwise, he usually gets me off, then just pounds the crap out of me. It doesn’t hurt and I love doing it for him buttttt I wish it was more pleasurable for me? We’ve tried lube, doggy and missionary .