My boyfriend has recently found out that two weeks after meeting him I went on a date with someone else. Once we started dating he went behind my back to ask this guy if went on a date and is mad I didn't tell him I did. We both agree there was no cheating but he feels its uneven??
He says he's forgiven me but constantly brings up the issue and complains it isn't fair. He says i'm a great gf now but doesn't know how to move past it. What can I do to help or is it beyond saving?
I think its unfair I didn't ask him for exclusivity and he didn't either so how is he actively treating me differently for it as if ive actually done something wrong rather than being upset, some part of him worries about cheating but the guy even said how he tried to text me again and I made it clear I had a boyfriend and blocked him so the real issue is him feeling its unfair. I think maybe i'm being one sided and not seeing his view can someone help me. I understand its sad hearing about your partners past but especially when this guy I went on a date with is clearly no threat now I just see this as retroactive jealousy.