Hello everyone!
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I can start by saying he is a good guy, cares for me and is always there for me when I need his support. I have to mention that he is an empath with everyone, not just with me tho. Anyway, he has some anger issues, gets easily irritated, and that is sometimes ruining my day because I always dreamed of having a calm partner, who does not take life that seriously. And now, to get back to the initial subject, when he's irritated he sometimes brings up the issue with the food. He told me he expects me to always cook his food. He said he wants to be "spoiled" like this when I would just expect at least a 50/50 contribution when it comes to cooking. I would never expect someone to do me such favour. I feel like he thinks about me as a servant, as my time is not important enough, because let's be honest, cooking takes a lot of time. I really think this mindset is toxic and I am not sure how to handle the situation. Any opinion on this? Thank you very much for reading!