So I have been seeing this woman for a while and things have been going well, The chemistry is off the walls and we are into a lot of the same things which I really like but my issue is that I am starting to feel distant or for lack of a better word, Bored. I dont know why though because I do like her a lot but I have also ran into this problem previously with other women over the past couple of years where things go well and we have a wonderful time together then something flips a switch in me and I just get distant or overwhelmed with having to keep up a schedule to talk/do things together then I lose interest or just do not feel the same anymore.
I have been single for the past 4 years and I am 28 years old so I'm unsure if its because I am so used to being single and doing things on my own schedule where I do not have to keep up with anything but myself, It does suck because I am completely okay with being alone but I would like to spend my life with somebody and this woman is really wonderful. I probably have some underlying issues that need to be addressed but I cannot see my therapist for a while so I was wondering if anyone had some advice or input about why I am so screwed up or what I can do to keep things going because I do like her so much.