I’m a single guy, and I’ve been noticing some confusing behavior from my female boss. I’ve never chased her, and I’ve tried to stay professional, but she does things that make me wonder if she’s interested:
She often comes near my workspace, and we lock eyes. Sometimes she smiles, teases me lightly, or just lingers nearby.
She buys me drinks and invites me for coffee.
She’s opened up about personal things, like her kids’ father, showing vulnerability around me.
She sometimes plays with her hair or walks past me in ways that feel intentional.
I’ve tried pulling back to not overreact, but that seems to change how she acts toward me.
At the same time, she interacts with other guys, so I don’t want to misread things.
I’m trying to stay neutral and professional, but I can’t help noticing these signals. Does it seem like she might be into me, or am I just reading too much into it?