So for example. Back before I turned into a man I'd get hit on almost on a daily basis, and sometimes it would get annoying. My friend who walked with me would get extra offended by this. I always figured it's something guys can't help, so they just say things on impulse. She always took it personally. But I found out from another friend of mine that she actually likes when guys ask her out and says men never do despite the fact that she looks very attractive.
So… Say a guy comes up and compliments you, introduces himself, asks your name, says you're attractive and would like to go on a date with you to get to know you better and offers to exchange numbers.
Can you tell me how you feel when that happens? Happy, upset, annoyed, or neutral?
And how does it feel when they're either Ugly, Normal, or Attractive?
For example, is it offensive or upsetting when an ugly guy tries to talk to you vs an attractive guy?
Do you hold it personally against the guy? As in, should he know better to not try to ask you out? Or is it nothing personal when you decline?
For those who don't mind being hit on by men, would that change if you found out the man who was hitting on you was a transman? Asking for a friend.