I’ve been trying to masturbate for years, but I haven’t been particularly good at it. I can rarely come unless I use anal toys as well as vaginal penetration. How do I help my partner stimulate me if they don’t like anal? Should I just get a toy specifically for my clit even if I’m not particularly sensitive? I always kinda thought something was wrong with me. I like the idea of sex, but it just isn’t living up to the hype that others give it.