I went on several dates with a guy who asked me out first. He is sweet, kind, caring, handsome, and smart – basically the full package. We met through a common close friend, so he is also 'filtered'.
The dates were really lovely and I had a great time. However, I’ve noticed that he shows almost zero curiosity about my personality. I believe that to be loved is to be seen, so I kept asking him about his hobbies, friends, work, childhood, and nationality (we have different backgrounds). I liked what I heard, which is why I continued dating him. What he asks me is mostly about how my day was, but it doesn't go any deeper than that.
He says he likes me, and I can see that (even by the way he looks at me), but I find it difficult to believe that he likes me for who I really am because he doesn't really try to get to know me. He thinks I'm cute, we laugh, and we kiss, but I have the impression that if I were any other girl, he wouldn't care, as long as my appearance or behaviour were the same. I'm afraid that he just wants to be in a relationship, to be loved, or to have a girlfriend, but not necessarily a relationship with ME/have ME as his girlfriend.
I don't know how men show interest because I haven't dated much. Is it too early to worry about this since we have only been on a few dates? Do you think I should ask him directly about my concerns?