My girlfriend and I have been together for many years and have known each other since high school. We both grew up with very narcissistic parents and that trauma has manifested differently for both of us. Growing up her mother always loved bombed her with gifts and then followed it up with horrific verbal and emotional abuse, and because of that she has always had trouble accepting gifts even from me on occasions that call for gifts like Christmas. That being said, she also struggles with terrible insomnia. I have been wanting to get her a weighted plush for her because she tried my weighted blanket once and it helped her almost fully pass out. She sleeps really hot though so the blanket was too hot. I figured that a plushie wouldn’t cover her up as much and make her too hot, but still have a similar effect. I was at work today and saw a german shepherd weighted plush that looked like her childhood dog who passed away. I almost bought it for her but then remembered how uncomfortable gifts can make her, so I put it back. I personally see it as something that could help her medically but I don’t want to make her uncomfortable either. Advice appreciated.