So ever since I got with my husband every time we’re going the nasty he ALWAYS wants me to ride I used to do it (just because I was raised to please) but I have told him before that I don’t like it! (Take it I am 287 lbs and he’s 170) I am a huge lady and I feel like I squish him, and I don’t wanna hurt him. But now I feel bad denying him that chance because I’m scared he will find another again and my marriage will end what should I do?