wtf is dating anymore? Ha, I don’t think it’s ever been easy in my 20s and certainly not in my 30s. I’ve had some ltr and after some time, finally putting myself back out there and quickly regretting it. For reference I am a woman, just sharing some of my experience because I’m appalled.
Had a date recently where we chatted through apps for a little, he seemed cool, went on date and I clocked he was a little jaded by women. I let it go at first cos I’m jaded by men, the difference is I don’t blame all men for some peoples behavior. The kicker though, He asked my ethnicity, once he found out, he said “oh” in a negative connotation and insulted me and my ancestors lol. Essentially said I was pretty for my race……. Sir….. really thought his racist rhetoric was fine and tried saying “I didn’t mean it like that” 😂 (continued to try talking to me, with not so subtle sexist remarks)
Another date was ok for the first 5 minutes. He kept getting upset saying if I don’t like him just leave. For context, I asked him where he is from, siblings, you know, basic get to know you questions. I said 3 different times, I wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t interested, then he kept going in and out of character voices randomly, during normal conversation. It was a deep, guttural voice and then a high pitched voice. I just kind of stared at first unsure if this was a bit or a personality disorder.. and once he said the just leave again, I did. 😂
Anyways, unfortunately I have a few more wtf dates. I’ve only had one guy be “normal”, I like weird but not whatever tf this has been. Ive deleted all the apps and going to go ahead and just not. Im exhausted and would love to hear women and men’s stories of wtf dates.