I saw a guy on YouTube, who was saying that people have kids only under pressure of society or under the fear of who take care of them when they are old
Then he says to plan for your own old age and how bad society is, like you need to have low IQ to be part of society. He says society runs on validation and show off( baby shower, festivals, etc.)
He is saying how bad having a family is, has now you will spend your weekends after problems of your kids and wife, and how much terrible that life is. Whereas he can travel whenever he wants, do whatever he wants without feeling traped totally opposite of people who have kids and family
He said people just have kids because they fear what will happen to them in old age
He also said people with family are like ZOMBIES, who are emotionally empty from inside as they live their life for their wife and kids, not doing what they want and he would live like how he is living now rather than living like that
He gave example of one of his client( He basically charges for a one on one phone call with him), who is 60 year old, rich, has 3 kids with very good job and he still is not happy with his life, his client once told him that what he took 50 years to understand what he understood early. That guy said his client is successful by standards of society but still feels sad in life
I fear becoming like that
So tell me are you really happy? And will you do the same thing again if you could go back?
EDIT: Comments under that video were agreeing with him ( 99% of them weren't even married, it was just an echo chamber) which made me confused