I’ve always been overly nice because I’m scared of hurting peoples feelings even over the smallest unserious banter. I also have a hard time thinking of what to say if it’s not something overly nice or people pleasing. This might sound stupid or unreal to complain about but I just feel like it’s so hard to make deep connections SOMETIMES and I’m wondering if that’s the problem. When people say rude unserious banter to me I can’t dish it back and it’s kinda lame because I want to play too lmao but I can never think of anything to say