Hi everyone and thanks for reading my post.
I wonder if it’s possible (and how hard it might be) to get along with a group of people I’d like to get along with. In this group everyone is nice, friendly, and very good friends with each other. I think I might have ruined things when I joined their group because I wanted so badly to be liked that I’m sure I came across as too intense and not very genuine (just smiling and agreeing with everyone).
Without forcing myself again (meaning that if, in the end, we don’t get along because we have different interests and social styles), how can I help them get along with me?
I believe it has a lot to do with not caring so much, which I’m trying to do now, but if you have more advice I would be grateful and happy to read it. For me, it’s a bit sad that I can’t get along as easily as other people because I get nervous.
Thanks again!