I am the person being made fun of wherever I go. Whether it be with friends, or people im meeting for the first time.
With friends, at least once a day I am ganged up on or being made fun for something I said or did. Even if it's completely normal. I am in high school and this is to be expected tbf. And I really like my friends and they are really good when I'm not ganged up on, but sometimes it's too much. The thing is almost all of them completely change when we are alone, it's not even unique to my group. But almost everyone I know suddenly becomes my best bud if we're alone. I know people will say, "Get rid of them and get new friends" but it's not that simple as I know like 95% of my grade and a lot of the school.
Even when im meeting or am just getting to know someone new, i'm always victim to a out of pocket, sometimes harsh, joke.
Whenever i am having an argument or being made fun of, majority of the time if someone else joins in, its not to defend or aid me, it's to be against my opinion or to gang up against me. Even if I know they don't agree with it. I live in a place with very hypocritical people that will question things I do and my wrongdoings, but don't pounce on each others.
Majority of people that i know always have that one friend(s) that they are super close to and are always with. My super close friend moved to a private school and since then I can't find someone else like that. I'm ALWAYS third wheeling or when im talking with a friend and someone else jumps in, im almost always instantly ignored. This is also a fairly new thing, as it started in 7th grade or maybe the very end of 6th.
I guess im just an easy person to pick on? I don't really know what I do wrong as I am not the best socially and I overthink what I say. Most of the time I can't play along because I can't think of a comeback quick enough. I also just can't, im really bad at it which I actually think is good.
Are people always going to be like this? Why have I only met 1 person that isn't?
I rambled a lot so sorry for the long read