There is this one girl in one of the friend groups I'm associated with, and she knows so many people at my university that it feels like she knows everyone, and everyone loves her because she's charismatic, has great influence over people, and good social skills. I used to like her as well, but recently I've noticed some things that I was blind to before because of the loudness and delightful chaos of her personality. And I'm confused why no one else can see it. These things she does are fairly major, at least to me, and I feel like a bad person disliking someone that everybody seems to like…