What is your biggest physical insecurity? Do you think you care about it less as you get older?
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Definitely my weight or my lazy eye lol
Having a body
Small boobs
My belly. I care about it more as I get older because it’s getting harder to lose the weight.
My legs are naturally really thick and disproportionate to the rest of my body.
My arms. And no.
having to wear glasses; my face looks too different because they make my eyes look smaller 😭😭
Belly and boobs after 3 kids
I almost only gain fat on my belly, I have almost no ass and I have big nostrils, but I don’t think about it 99% of the time, I did care more when I was younger but never to the point of feeling self-conscious or thinking about getting surgery or something. I’m 40 and I almost don’t give a flying fuck anymore because it’s not even that bad, I don’t have a huge belly, my ass is not completely flat and my nostrils are not that huge, as a woman you just grow up thinking about every little detail that is “wrong” with you.
My weight or my smile. I definitely don’t care as much about my smile not being perfect anymore as I’ve gotten older, but still am very insecure about my weight.
I’ve always been fat. I’m a size 22 now.
I’d give anything to be mid-size let alone thin. I’ve never known what it’s like to be pretty.
gummy smile 🙁
My feets
ever since I was younger I’ve gone out of my way to avoid wearing any kinda of sandals or flip flops, I hate doing activities that show them and if I ever take my shoes off I make sure to have socks nearby.
I remember seeing a post online about a girl with feet similar to mine and all the comments were roasting the way they looked and I started crying bc mine at the time were in much worse shape than hers. This messed me up so bad that I dated my boyfriend for almost 2 years before he ever saw my feet outside of socks for fear that he’d mock them lol.
I’ve gotten slightly more confident in the way they look but I still won’t show them around people I don’t really trust.
My face
Being asked what my biggest insecurity is. There’s enough in the world to remind women of their insecurities.
I have slightly uneven eyelids that have gotten a little more prominent as I’ve gotten older.
You don’t magically care less as you become older.
For some, it intensifies. For others, it decreases.
It depends if you address those insecurities/mindset/limiting beliefs, etc.
My round face, and kinda. It’s not that I’m not insecure about it I’m just tired of worrying about it
it was my double chin… so i got chin lipsuction lol.
Big nose. I don’t care about it as much as I used to. Plastic surgery is grotesque to me, so I’d rather live with the nose.
I never had any physical insecurity until I started aging. I feel exactly the same as I did when I was 26 but it’s distressing to see the 45 year old face looking back at me in the mirror. I’m still traditionally attractive but it’s not the same.
stomach and bad skin
My fupa
My nose. I’ve never liked it growing up, ive been told I have a very indigenous nose and growing up I just wanted it smaller and cute and pointy but as ive grown up it’s reminding me of my roots and im proud of my nose now
I’ve accepted everything else, but my teeth are my biggest insecurity.
my belly. always my belly. even when i was younger and thinner it was always there and i hated it
tbh i think i care about it differently now not less. like in my 20s it was pure vanity, i wanted to look good in a dress. in my 40s its more like… i just want my body to work and not hold me back?
I don’t know if this counts but I used to really hate having my photo taken I just don’t photograph well.. I hated it when the camera came out, I overthink it and make it worse. But I have stopped caring as much because when I look back at photos from a decade ago I guess it’s not that bad.
Having lopsided boobs since they started developing. I’ve accepted the German barmaid body build, but man, I want to wear nice dresses without bras and those strapless sticky bras just don’t have enough support for the D-sized gals. I don’t think I’ll stop caring about it less until I get it fixed which is out of my budget probably forever.
Too many insecurities to count
My body hair, side profile and itty bitty boobs.
Being the short ugly Hispanic friend in a friend group of beautiful blonde and redhead girls
IDK if it counts or not but I physically have HSV.
Otherwise I guess my boobs and belly since I never got to have nice boobs and lost weight
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Definitely my weight or my lazy eye lol
Having a body
Small boobs
My belly. I care about it more as I get older because it’s getting harder to lose the weight.
My legs are naturally really thick and disproportionate to the rest of my body.
My arms. And no.
having to wear glasses; my face looks too different because they make my eyes look smaller 😭😭
Belly and boobs after 3 kids
I almost only gain fat on my belly, I have almost no ass and I have big nostrils, but I don’t think about it 99% of the time, I did care more when I was younger but never to the point of feeling self-conscious or thinking about getting surgery or something. I’m 40 and I almost don’t give a flying fuck anymore because it’s not even that bad, I don’t have a huge belly, my ass is not completely flat and my nostrils are not that huge, as a woman you just grow up thinking about every little detail that is “wrong” with you.
My weight or my smile. I definitely don’t care as much about my smile not being perfect anymore as I’ve gotten older, but still am very insecure about my weight.
I’ve always been fat. I’m a size 22 now.
I’d give anything to be mid-size let alone thin. I’ve never known what it’s like to be pretty.
gummy smile 🙁
My feets
ever since I was younger I’ve gone out of my way to avoid wearing any kinda of sandals or flip flops, I hate doing activities that show them and if I ever take my shoes off I make sure to have socks nearby.
I remember seeing a post online about a girl with feet similar to mine and all the comments were roasting the way they looked and I started crying bc mine at the time were in much worse shape than hers. This messed me up so bad that I dated my boyfriend for almost 2 years before he ever saw my feet outside of socks for fear that he’d mock them lol.
I’ve gotten slightly more confident in the way they look but I still won’t show them around people I don’t really trust.
My face
Being asked what my biggest insecurity is. There’s enough in the world to remind women of their insecurities.
I have slightly uneven eyelids that have gotten a little more prominent as I’ve gotten older.
You don’t magically care less as you become older.
For some, it intensifies. For others, it decreases.
It depends if you address those insecurities/mindset/limiting beliefs, etc.
My round face, and kinda. It’s not that I’m not insecure about it I’m just tired of worrying about it
it was my double chin… so i got chin lipsuction lol.
Big nose. I don’t care about it as much as I used to. Plastic surgery is grotesque to me, so I’d rather live with the nose.
I never had any physical insecurity until I started aging. I feel exactly the same as I did when I was 26 but it’s distressing to see the 45 year old face looking back at me in the mirror. I’m still traditionally attractive but it’s not the same.
stomach and bad skin
My fupa
My nose. I’ve never liked it growing up, ive been told I have a very indigenous nose and growing up I just wanted it smaller and cute and pointy but as ive grown up it’s reminding me of my roots and im proud of my nose now
I’ve accepted everything else, but my teeth are my biggest insecurity.
my belly. always my belly. even when i was younger and thinner it was always there and i hated it
tbh i think i care about it differently now not less. like in my 20s it was pure vanity, i wanted to look good in a dress. in my 40s its more like… i just want my body to work and not hold me back?
I don’t know if this counts but I used to really hate having my photo taken I just don’t photograph well.. I hated it when the camera came out, I overthink it and make it worse. But I have stopped caring as much because when I look back at photos from a decade ago I guess it’s not that bad.
Having lopsided boobs since they started developing. I’ve accepted the German barmaid body build, but man, I want to wear nice dresses without bras and those strapless sticky bras just don’t have enough support for the D-sized gals. I don’t think I’ll stop caring about it less until I get it fixed which is out of my budget probably forever.
Too many insecurities to count
My body hair, side profile and itty bitty boobs.
Being the short ugly Hispanic friend in a friend group of beautiful blonde and redhead girls
IDK if it counts or not but I physically have HSV.
Otherwise I guess my boobs and belly since I never got to have nice boobs and lost weight