So I was in a situationship from Sept 2025 to Nov 2025 last year with a girl and it was beautiful but then things went downhill and we had to seperate our ways mostly because of me since I was not ready for a relationship and she wanted to have a relationship (I was fresh out of a breakup). things ended in Nov 2025 and we both went our seperate ways however I still missed her
Now coming back to present she came back into my life again 5 days back (she contacted first) and was very casual about things which happened between us. This time I asked her for a relationship which she denied saying she can't trust me and will never come into relationship but will also not let me go. I did tell her that It's either a relationship or no contact at all since I can't be friends with her.
She still keeps on calling me and meeting me, stays on call with me for hours and is giving mixed signals. I asked her to leave my life or get in relationship and she's not doing both just keeping me hanging
TLDR: Ex-Situationship came back in my life whom I have stopped talking to and now when I ask her for relationship she won't let me have it with her and also won't let me stay in no contact