Honestly is there no way to do this? Every second like I get on dating apps is somebody doing ENM which is frankly my worst nightmare. I just want to find something monogamous and I’m surprised there is no way to filter this. Even when I put it in my bio “no ENM – monogamy only” people just swipe me anyway. It’s really annoying for me. :/


5 comments

  1. The apps decide what behavior they consider to be worthy of reporting, but swiping on you and offering something you explicitly said you weren’t interested in, might fall into the reportable category. If you haven’t been reporting profiles like that, you might consider doing so, because someone getting reported seems to me to be something much more likely for a human to actually end up looking at, than any kind of swiping behavior.

  2. You can filter it out if you pay for premium. Otherwise just don’t swipe on the people

  3. This shouldn’t even be an option on a mainstream dating app. This is not mainstream. These people should go to Feeld where they belong.

  4. Ugh this is so annoying. There should be a different app for these people

  5. I noticed the older ones do. OKCupid had a filter for it, but none of the apps (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Grindr) had the same function.

    Granted, OKCupid is much less densely populated, and the people on it tend to be a little older.

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