I am a virgin so please bear with me, although I'm well into my 20s. I recently have been trying to gain sexual experience and matched a guy on tinder. He invited me on a date (dinner, smoothie, walk in the park) and then to his house. We sat on the bed, cuddled, kissed, touched each other, everything was great. Then, he tried to take my top off and I just started to panic. I am not sure what happened but I froze and told him not to. He was understanding and said we don't have to do anything. I said we can still have sex but I don't want to keep my top on. He said we don't have to have sex if I'm "not ready". I started crying and apologized to him and he reassured me that it was all normal, even though I know he was lying about that. Anyway we cuddled some more and then I left. He told me not to worry about anything and there is no pressure. I was pretty much in tears as I went home.
After a couple days he messaged me and asked if I want to hang out again. I still haven't responded. I do want to see him and hopefully have sex, but I don't think I can take my shirt off like that. Does anyone have any advice?