I am 42 female married to 41 male. Here is my issue. Throughout out 26yr relationship he has never stood up for me. Not when his crazy mom disrespected me calling me every name in the book, even when people spoke bad about me or called me names. Today it came to ahead, my daughter's ex BF called me a whore which I'm not obviously. Completely faithful our entire marriage. He said nothing. Yes I've had talks with him about how it has made me feel over the years that he doesn't take up for me and he always has nothing to say. I confronted him about allowing someone to disrespect his wife without even defending me and he went off on me. Yelling I want to make it about me that I have to be center of attention. I'm never center of attention nor do I want to be. I'm quiet most the time and easy going. Our 17yr old son was in the back seat and tried to defend me and he told us to shut up. My son came to me afterwards and said his dad is showing him what not to be in a relationship. I've been in tears all day. I feel like I might be done with our relationship but idk. Any advice??