Any advice/new perspectives on meeting people?

Hello! I’ll try to not make this too long. I’m a bi 31f, I’ve only started dating the past 2-3 years (I went on a date right before covid but then… covid, so nothing happened lol.) in school I was either bullied or had low self esteem & dating wasn’t on my radar at all. The most experience I have is making out. I have so little experience not for religious reasons or anything, I’ve just not connected with anyone yet. I was on hinge & bumble but I feel like the apps served their purpose & now im more comfortable with dating, & I don’t really wanna go back on them lol.

I don’t have a problem with asking someone for their #, & I’ve done it before, but I just haven’t found anyone I’m into recently. I know most advice is to volunteer or take a class, which I am planning on doing, but the problem is—idk if it is me or my interests or what—I feel like I don’t end up in classes with single people, & I haven’t made any new friends from them. (For example, I took a ceramics class but it was full of only new mothers. Still fun though!)

Anyway, I just feel like since I’m so inexperienced…am I missing something else I could be doing? I know it’s probably going to be luck & timing, or not happen at all, but idk. I welcome any advice or different perspectives, maybe I just haven’t thought of something else I could be doing.


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