I (23m) am conflicted by advice I have been given in regards to dating / getting into a relationship. It hurts especially since I have yet to experience a real relationship yet. 

How do men that make no money, are in large amounts of debt, don’t have a career path date and find success with women? 

I am jaded because I am the complete of opposite of that and still struggle to date. I have never dated a normal girl yet. I only have experience with sugar dating.

I have read, see and personally heard (my best friend) many anecdotes of broke/poor/in debt men my age group (18-30) have no issues getting girlfriends and with women.

  • for example my best friend, he plays video games, his mom makes him his meals, drinks alcohol, works retail, lives with mom & dad
  • he has a girlfriend that makes way more than him, and has no issues getting girlfriends easily

How do those guys do it? How is it so easy for them? How are the girls not turned off by their lazyness and uselessness? 

Any advice? 


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