I (19F) and my boyfriend (19M) have been dating for almost a year. We love each other very much, and although we argue every now and then then like every couple, we always make up and move on.
We have a pretty colourful sex life, and we understand each other very well especially in that aspect.
The thing is, as much as we love the oral and hand stuff, we usually just rush to get to the penetration. He has no problem in making me finish, and he always has a good time too. The problem is that that when we have time to take it slow, I always try to jerk him off or give him oral, but he never finishes from it. I’ll be there for up to an hour almost, trying my best, but it just doesn’t do it for him.
We have an amazing time regardless, whispering sweet nothings and making out. He says he has an awesome time, and it doesn’t matter if he finishes or not, and that he loves spending the time with me, but I can’t help but feel bad.
He’s able to make me finish pretty easily through oral or fingering but I can’t make him finish in the same way. Is there anything I can do to make him feel good? Or do I just need more practice?
TLDR; I can’t make my bf finish through a handjob or a blowjob. How do I help him feel good?