Hi, reddit. Got a weird thing going, I'm wondering if anyone's had a similar experience or knows what could be causing it. I'm a cis male in my 30s. When I experience sexual pleasure, no matter what the source, it always stops feeling good after about 10-12 minutes. It happens with penis stimulation and with anal stimulation, it happens when masturbating and with partnered sex, it happens whether I'm going for orgasm or trying to edge and pay more attention to pleasure, it happens if I'm watching porn or if I'm not. It even happens if I don't approach orgasm, if I'm just having a good time and feeling good without getting close. It'll just… stop feeling good after 10-12 minutes. No pain, no discomfort, it doesn't feel like I'm getting overstimulated or anything. I can still feel sensation, it's not numbness. It's just a total dead stop of pleasure. Like I still feel whatever's going on to whatever part of me, it just… doesn't feel good anymore.
Has anyone else experienced this, or knows what might cause it? I'd like to have sex for longer, so if there's a way around my issue I'd love to know about it. I haven't always been this way, it's only been like this for the last few years.