Im into cnc and also tend to be attracted to older men. i’m curvier, not petite, and lately I’ve been getting in my head about whether that “fits” the dynamic.
A lot of what I see online tends to show tiny women in that role, and I’ve started internalizing that as the ideal. I don’t know if that’s realistic or just what gets amplified.
How do I stop comparing myself to what I see online and feel more confident in my body within this kind of dynamic?