We live next door to a lovely elderly couple, however all the do is complain and it’s ridiculous.
My husband has a shower for work depending on his jobs for the day sometimes he’s in bathroom from 5-6am
Then our 3 sons getting ready for college and school and myself for work. everyone is finished in bathroom by atleast 8.10am
Our neighbours stop us and regularly complain about using the bathroom so early?! We have explained we need to use bathroom before work/school etc.
They say they can hear every noise which is mad as bathroom is at back of their house and their bedroom is at front of house, they’ve said they need to keep bathroom door open for light we’ve suggested closing it to minimise noise they’ve said no because of the light and then they also need bedroom door open because their dog wanders.
They’ve asked us to consider showering at night to minimise noise in morning?
Then last Saturday my son goes to the football with friends, so around 12 of his friends walked to ours and son wasn’t ready so they waited in our drive just talking amongst themselves , I’ve also checked this on ring camera.
My neighbour has suggested asking my son friends to meet at bottom of road as she feels uncomfortable with that many teenagers outside her house.
I completely understand that and that they might feel intimidated but she said it’s because they’re all dressed in black which is fair enough but they’re young lads and majority wear dark clothing? And my son was all of 5mins and then the all left to meet up with another friend, I’ve suggested that I let her know when his friends will arrive on football days which is usually 2 Saturdays in a month and maybe a weekday night game and she said that wouldn’t work for them?!
If they was loud, causing problems and on their property then I could understand but I feel it’s completely unfair to ask as they’ve been doing this since we’ve lived here which is over 7 years, they all meet with eachother on who lives closest and the walk to next friends house grab then and so on until the reach football stadium.
She’s also mentioned my son regularly brings back 2-3 friends when we’re not home usually if he finishes early from college, I’ve asked is there excessive noise from the house or any disturbances to you when he does that and she says no she doesn’t hear much noise in the day apart from early in morning regarding bathroom situation.
She said she’s just letting me know he’s bringing friends home, so I thanked her and said yes usually after college they usually go round to whoever house parents aren’t in to relax/chill do whatever 17yr old do.
We are getting quite annoyed at constant updates on the house or whatever, their living room is back of house so I feel they are curtain twitching as everyday I come home from work as I’m pulling onto drive she opens the door and they either put rubbish in bin , sweeping their front garden or cleaning windows and then we get talking and then moaning about bathroom situation
They’ve also complained my husband leaves quite early and can hear his van leaving around 6-7am I said that’s a usual time for people to and from work and she’s asked if he would park his van on the street and we’ve said no as before we had a drive his van got broken into and tools removed and he needs them for work, so he’s parking on drive where we have a camera.
She’s also complaining to us about their other neighbours who have not long moved in getting a milk delivery and it’s disturbing them.
we are looking to move soon to buy a house but we haven’t found a house yet, I want to keep the peace but I’m getting to the point where I’m loosing the will to live.
I’m avoiding coming home at same time and running errands or staying later at work but they still come out everyday I feel like they’re standing at the window waiting for myself or husband to come home to literally complain about us showering