I had a conflict with my husband because since we got engaged and now we are married, I gained a lot of weight. Almost 30 pounds. I have PCOS and i have sometimes hair on my chin so he told me also to go try to remove them on laser ( i explained several times for him that i am a redhead and laser doesn't work on my hair). He told me that after the marriage, i became careless about my body weight and how i look.