TLDR I’m 30 and she’s 20 is that weird
I think she’s pretty cool and I find her attractive. I just feel weird about the age gap. If we were both 3-4 years older I wouldn’t seem as bad to
me even with the 10 year age gap.
She flirts with me a lot at work and recently I’ve started to flirt back. My life is not at all where I want it to be. I haven’t dated in years as I’m focusing on fixing my life. If she didn’t have a crush on me and wasn’t giving me signals I wouldn’t even consider it and wouldn’t even be looking her way. But her flirting game is pretty good and it’s working on me I’ll admit
My biggest fear is the judgement I’ll receive for dating a girl so young. I also don’t think dating coworkers is a great idea. I also don’t want her to think of me as creepy later in life. I’ve read a lot of threads of women who dated older when they were younger and they always say the guy was a creep for dating them.
What I don’t really fear is if we’ll have stuff in common. I don’t really consider us in different phases of life honestly. I mean we work the same place and all. I’m just 10 years wiser lol.
Edit: it’s very likely she’s going to leave this job soon and I am also trying to leave this job soon.
What do you guys think?