I'm in a desperate need of perspectives. I (25F) and my partner (28M) have been seeing each other for about 3.5 months now. Initially I liked him a lot as he's a lovely person, our vibes matched to a decent extent. We both love travelling so we decided to take a trip to the mountains for 9 days.
2 days into the trip and I feel like just.. leaving him here.
He's not funny, he doesn't initiate things, unfortunately selfish and terrible in bed. He's like a child and I am feeling like his mother. He's silent the entire time and all he does is bite me (lovingly ofc), and say a couple of lines. Everythingbhe does is so predictable as well because I've realised that he's a very vanilla person. Nothing bad in that, it's just boring. And that energy brings me down and I am not able to enjoy my vacation. Everytime he touches me I feel like punching him.
Tbvh if he were good in bed, I would've overlooked these small other things. I am not feeling attracted to him even 1 %. This doesn't negate the lovely partner that he is.
I know I should end it, or am I being overdramatic about this and can be worked upon. Plsss help!