I moved to a small town in Idaho. I met this girl in the Walmart parking lot in July. We went on a couple of dates, went swimming, had lunch together, and got to know each other. We would see each other maybe once every other week or so as she was very busy. She explained to me that she moved to the area at the same time I did to finish a nursing degree, while doing a nursing practitioner ship online. We saw each other very in frequently for a couple of months. Then in October, we started seeing each other quite a bit. She works 12 hour shifts about an hour from our town and was always super busy. She had a Halloween party and I came to it and we started to hang out quite a bit more. In November, we would hang out about once or twice a week. She would still be working full-time in a small town in Washington. She was super busy with her online coursework and work. I took her to my Work holiday party in December where she met all of my friends and coworkers. She has met a couple of my sisters over the course of these months.
I asked her to be my girlfriend on December 2.
Up until this point, we were seeing each other casually and I didn’t mind taking it slow. I did tell her at the beginning of December that I wanted to spend more time with her and she agreed. That’s when I asked her to be my girlfriend.
As we went into the new year, she found out that her nurse practitioner. School was way ahead of schedule. She informed me that she was going to have to do a residency program for about 18 months. She landed on Mesa Arizona as the place to go. I know it’s been super quick, but I decided to move with her. She was for it, but wanted me to make sure that I really liked the place and that I wasn’t just moving for her. After we took a few more trips together, and got to know each other in January, I decided that I would be moving with her.
On Valentine’s Day, this is where it gets crazy.
We went out and had our Valentine’s Day lunch together. We came back to my place. Walked inside and fooled around for about 20 minutes. Right after we were done, I got a firm knock at my door. There was someone standing in the door and I got dressed super quickly and opened it. He said “is Sarah here “?(fake name) I said “yeah who are you?”
He said: “I’m her boyfriend who the fuck are you? “
She came out and said this is totally unfair and me and him got into a yelling match. She darted out of there with a really bewildered look. The man at my door explained after a bit of yelling that that was his girlfriend. He knew everything about her, her plans, her life. I asked him for proof. He showed me photos of her naked on his phone from two weeks ago. He told me they have been together for over a year. They work together at the hospital. This rocked my world. They both left. I got in my car and drove to her house where I didn’t spend a lot of time. I knocked on the door and the roommate answered. I asked her if she knew what was going on. She explained that my girlfriend told her that she was seeing both of us very casually. This was clearly not the case. I called her and ask what was going on and if we could chat. She agreed. She didn’t know that I had already confirmed everything and knew the truth. She came home and we had a bit of a yelling match and I told her to have a nice life. She had been living a double life this entire time. I’m still so confused and can’t believe that this happened. They were planning on moving to Arizona together as well, had a dog together, knew each other for longer, work together, told each other they loved each other, planned on having kids. I’m at a loss.
I haven’t made any contact. I told her to have a nice life. The other boyfriend came and visited me today and we cleared the air. Our timelines matched up. Every time she would leave here or was out with one of her friends, she was actually with him. Every time she was here, she would tell him that she was with her friends. This is so insane. I’ve told everyone I know and they can’t believe it. Thought I’d share. Please leave your comments and let me know what you think.