I've (22M) been dating my gf (21F) for over 2 years and I took her virginity over 1.5 years ago. Our sex drives our very compatible we have sex at least once almost every time we see eachother 2-5 times per week. The only thing is that she's insecure about her body, not gonna go into much detail but she hasn't let me give her oral even though I want to and she hasn't ever taken her top off in front of me before even though I've seen a pic of her boobs and touched them.
I've expressed my desire to do those things among other things and it used to be a problem any time it was brought up but we both understand eachother now and she says she wants everything I want but she's just insecure (what she told me).
She thinks gaining weight will make her confident and I guess she wants to let me go down on her right after she showers even though I've tasted her before and I like it and there's no bad smell or anything we both shower very often and are overall very heiginic.
I don't really bring it up anymore cause I don't see the point and it's not like I don't enjoy having sex with her I just feel like she will never be the one to initiate either of those things and the longer we are together without having done that the more tension around it will build up and I'm afraid it won't happen, I've decided that it is what it is, I'm not entirely satisfied but it's not something I'll break up with her over so I figure it'll happen eventually.
I was just wondering how common this is and if anyone has had a similar experience and how it worked out.