TLDR: I’m about to lose my virginity to my bf and I don’t know what to do?
I’m 20F and still a virgin. He’s 21M and has only had one sexual partner before, and that was brief.
We’ve been together almost 2 years now.
I’ve wanted to have sex for a long time, but he’s always said no for his own reasons. I honestly think he was in a weird mental place about sex and himself for a while. He always wants to do things to me eating me out, fingering, using toys, etc. buuutt never with him other than surface level hickeys and kissing.
But yesterday, after getting pretty into things, he told me he wants to have sex on Valentine’s Day. I’m obviously excited, but also really nervous. I’ve literally never even seen a dick in person before. I don’t know what to expect, I don’t know anything about his body, and I want it to be good for both of us.
Besides using protection, is there anything I should know? What kinda lubes do I use, how do I ride him, what positions are good, how do I give oral? I feel like I know absolutely nothing, so genuinely ANY advice/tips on anything would be appreciated.
Thank you!!
Please comment I need to practice or do something before he comes over tomorrow :((