I am 36/F and I’m married to a 38/M (4 years married 6 together). His parents are lovely. We eloped after my parents begged me not to marry him. They’ve resented us both since. They throw it up in my face all the time that I’ve “changed since meeting him” and “not for the good.” That translates to I found my voice. They made decisions for me until now. And if they didn’t and I made a decision they didn’t agree with they would pressure me until I change my mind.
My parents are difficult to say the least. The other day it got pretty heated between my dad and I and he told me to get out of his house. I was upset and vented to my husband. My husband became super protective of me and went and got into it with my parents about it (he told me he did this because I never have anyone who sticks up for me.) Two wrongs don’t make a right and I know that. My parents threatened to get a protective order against him. No physical harm just yelling. I was shocked. They also told me as long as I’m married to him I’m cut out of the will and he’s never allowed back at their house.
It’s made the situation between my husband and I strained. I feel like I’m in the middle. My parents aren’t angels in the situation for sure. Advice? Where do I go from here?
TL/DR My parents hate my husband. My husband hates my parents. Now I’m in the middle.