I’m recently single and met a man over the weekend. He made all the first moves and he ended up coming back to mine and we had good sex. He slept over and we had quite deep chats and he seemed like he really liked me, as he was consistently complimenting me,and saying he would take me out. He wanted to spend time over the weekend with me, but i couldn’t. After he left i was busy all day but he texted me that night and was suggesting plans. I invited him over two night after i met him because i was bored and home alone and we had sex again and talked for hours. It’s now four days after i last saw him and he hasn’t texted me since.
for context, I told him I didn’t want anything serious right now, but i told him i liked spending time with him and would definitely see him again. He asked for my number and the rest. I am the last person to text him. We seemed to have a lot of chemistry and fancied each other a lot.
When he left my house the other night i joked about not being able to see him for three weeks cause I’m busy.
Is this a pump and dump or is he just busy as he is older and has like three jobs. I’m scared as i have a crush on him> so in your opinion, was he leading me on with future plans, did i put him off by playing it too cool, or is he just busy?
Also, is the ball in my court or his?