context- i asked out a girl whom id been vibing w for quite sometime…she rejected and said she wasnt ready for a relationship and i shudnt wait but the thing is ive fallen for her too deep… we still vibe and she says she loves me but wants me to be her bsf instead of bf cause she doesnt date… now i need help if i shud stay and keep putting effrts till i pull her or shud i leave?