I need help figuring this out!!! I [26F] found my bf [27M] messages with random women. These messages are very much he tried and they didn’t give him any attention back. but he was reacting to they’re tik toks and messaging them heart eyes in the chats. To me that’s cheating even if it’s just emotional! you had intentions to send it to her not just keep scrolling. Hes done this multiple times the whole year weve been together. we even welcomed a bay boy together in the year we’ve been together and he texted a girl the day we had our baby. just it’s very unfaithful in my eyes. So I guess where I need help is. Is this really as bad as my heads telling me or is it just me?