It was our fourth date (me f39 and him m40) and we talked about our experiences with past relationships. We were really open about it, but one story really got stuck in my mind. He said two or three years ago he was dating a girl. She was not really a good match, but the sex was so good, so he kept her.
He also said that he would wish for more likes on dating apps, because dating (and finding sex-dates, situationships etc.) is hard for men these days.
Is this a red flag?
I am not looking for something casual. I want a deep and emotional relationship, where sex is the result of feeling connected, not sonething I owe him, just because we are a couple.
Am I asking for too much?